Is it really worth it?

 It’s okay for everyone to be searching and craving for that part to feel loved but is it really worth the trouble of being stuck with someone that you’re very sure isn’t appreciating anything you do?

Campus relationships ain’t no joke. Despite your emotions clouding your judgement, they can be your worst breakdown. Most campus relationships are one sided, one is making much effort than the other. This is when you feel unappreciated, always feeling angry and making bad decisions. If your relationship has no mutual vibes; my brother, my sister that heartbreak is around the door. 

You find yourself in situations that you got to explain a lot to your partner to understand you, they should be your peace not the other way round, mostly this is brought by trust issues. Each time bringing up what happened in the past rather than dwelling on what is to happen later. Relationships are well understandable from misunderstandings to a point of fixing it up and moving on. 

Most campus relationships, partners fight and argue so hard and instead of trying to sit down and fix that, you find a situation that one of them is using some quotes to defend his/her wrong situation leaving the other partner speechless. This is when you feel unheard, being blamed for everything bad happening to the relationship. This is so toxic, you can’t be in a relationship whereby each time something happens you’re to blame, the worst part is when you keep on forgiving same mistakes over and over, yes forgiving is part of being real in that relationship but come think of it, you really think if you was in that situation he/she would have forgiven you? Better be real to yourself and make that energy useful somewhere worth it. He/she can be in a relationship for something in return, might be sex or money but your emotions getting the better of you, make you think it’s real love. Just wake up, face facts and accept them. There’s no need to be angry over what he/she did, you still have an option of quitting it and having a new fresh one.

TOXIC IS REAL, JUST MOVE ON. No one gets paid to be in a toxic relationship, as a matter of fact, It ain’t worth the trouble. 

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